FAQs: What to Expect in a Reading

Readings are fun!!  It’s like tarot cards if tarot had an infinite number of cards and 2 Professor Trelawneys.  We will begin by describing what we “see”. And while they may appear random at first, their significance will be up to you.  We are reading the ENERGIES of a situation or person and it can be either LITERAL or METAPHORICAL.  

You can ask anything, and the more specific the question, the more specific the answer.  Knowledge is power. 

For example, an Entrepreneur asked, “Will I make money in my home business?” And the image was a little Russian Babushka lady pulling potatoes out of the ground. We have no idea, but it meant something to her family and culture about being provided for.

Somebody during a Soulmate Medium Reading once asked, “Should I go to Thanksgiving?” The response was “Welllll, do you FEEEEEL like going to Thanksgiving???!!” It was spoken in the way her soulmate would have responded.  Then we see a little kid picking her nose and a chicken!  The very next day she received a photo from her friend at Thanksgiving of a girl picking her nose, with Thanksgiving balloons behind her.  The chicken– they were thinking of making chicken instead of turkey.

Walls are man-made. 
Healings are less fun and can become uncomfortable if your soul fights to keep the status quo and resists change.  We also remove blame entirely from the equation. It’s not about who was right or wrong. Rather, what can you change in your life to shift that situation? Many energies are lifted that have weighed you down for a long time, and this weight becomes what it used to be.  You can lie down with a blanket and cover your eyes to get more comfortable.  You may feel exhausted but relieved and lighter after it integrates. 

We hope one day you can look back upon these dark times of transition and be able to laugh about it, or at the very least recognize you’ve come so far.  Pfft, almost died?!  That was nothing.  That thing that ripped your soul and shattered your heart into a thousand pieces?  Well, now you’re making it into a movie and it’s a Rom-Com.

You may feel anxiety or nervousness before a session.  The subconscious knows it’s coming and is trying to protect you. You may respond with resistance, avoidance, distraction, denial, procrastination, and even belligerence. 

In our own experience, we’ve even run into actual red lights or road detours on the way to driving to a session.  The subconscious may try to avoid answering the question and redirect with different topics to work on etc.  This happens sometimes, but know it is a safe space to see the part that wants to stay hidden without judgment or criticism.
 
It is JUST a part of you that was created in order to survive that you were unaware of. It isn’t actually WHO you are.  Working on beliefs regarding stress and anxiety can also improve your overall healing progress. 

Experiencing deep emotions in sessions is normal.  We love it when you cry muahahaha it means you’re in the process of a  really deep healing!!  Tears release suppressed toxins and cleanse the soul.  You may feel physical symptoms in the body where it is releasing as you may release a lot.
Expect two nights after to integrate these new feelings and beliefs.

We use an intuitively guided, meditative talk therapy to dig deep into the subconscious root.  In utilizing Spirit, we go straight to the purest Source of the Creator and use Universal Life Force Energy of All That (stem cell energy).  It uses the same brain wavelength as hypnotherapy to lock in new programs and beliefs.   

For a reading/healing session, you will need to be hydrated.  Water helps keep your life force flowing and is important for accurate muscle-testing.  
Muscle-testing is a technique used to check if a belief is present.
Closing your eyes helps you connect to your subconscious, and what you see and hear and memories that come up during these sessions are relevant.   We will guide you to the calming energy of the Universe to relax you.

Many psychics/mediums/shamans/healers read through the third eye and ancestral plane, which may have ego and other lower energies mixing communication. Everybody, even your trusted therapist, doctor, and us, have subconscious biases that may influence the reading.  Be discerning, take everything with a grain of salt, and only do what is comfortable for you.  

Choose honest people who work on bettering themselves and have pure motivations for their practices. Intentions matter. Everybody is fluctuating on the scale from a pure to a corrupt black heart (hello The Bachelor and politicians!). If somebody is ego-motivated just to be adored and famous, or to be rich and powerful then that is not the healing energies supporting the true spirit of love and soul growth.  That energy is also not sustainable (for people or companies) in the long run and will eventually crack and break down.  With all things, strive to be motivated through love instead of fear. 

Avoid love spells and curses (intense negative energy directed at one person). You cannot manifest a specific person because of the law of free will, and you don’t want to coerce someone to be with you. Love spells don’t work and curses only bounce back 10x to the caster. Energy can always be cleared and boundaries repaired with awareness and healing. 

YES! However, a holistic healing approach is tailored to each individual as everybody has a unique set of experiences, even twins with the same DNA.  For couples we recommend individual healing, followed by couples sessions.  When there is healing done on the genetic line, anybody in the family afterward need only consent out loud to that shared belief’s healing to receive its benefits. 

No.  All data and sessions are confidential.  We do not share information with the exception of anonymous stories that may help others.  If you wish to share your story, that is up to you.  We do love to hear how all the random stuff turned out, and love to hear your testimonials!

This directly relates to how much you want to change your life.  It is possible to make significant progress from a single healing, and clear multiple beliefs and shift many motivations/energies at once on all levels.  Pulling out the bottom root belief will take down the branches that stemmed from it.  Growth-minded and purpose-driven people or people who have significant traumas may wish to progress on a continuous path. 

We often mix a little intuitive reading and quick healings in everything we do.  If we see it, we like to change it immediately.  A Soulmate Medium Reading may be speaking with a passed-on loved one, but if needed, it can include broken heart/broken soul healings, clearing the shock and trauma soul fragments, and releasing grief and sadness you may be holding onto in the body.  
You can also add reading/healing questions in these readings. A crossed-over spirit may not give the best advice as they still have the human ego, but they still can be from a higher perspective.

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You can MAKE it work with anybody, but how much of yourself are you willing to give up?
Settle Up.

You may simply not be on the same wavelength.  When you vibe at a high level, and your partner is at a lower vibration (can be affected by addiction/depression/imbalances etc) or your souls are simply growing at different rates, you become an ENERGETIC MISMATCH.  You can always manifest for a partner that grows with you, and couples can do individual work to get back on the same path.  

EVERYBODY benefits from being unattached and dating yourself. Working on yourself is the best way to create the future you envision and manifest the most fulfilling, deepest relationship.  You or your partner may need a break from the soul-connection for individual growth or there may be heart blocks to overcome. 

In a tiny fraction of cases, there are Divine partners and those that are meant to come together no matter what.  In most cases, you have an infinite number of soulmates to choose from so you will want to ask for the highest, best, and most compatible partner for you.  There is somebody for everyone, at every stage.

We will say that there is no successful entrepreneur/relationship/person who isn’t an optimist.  However, as people who have lived through struggle in nearly every area of life, we understand all the ways one person can resist/reject/fight/avoid/block receiving all forms of abundance (which includes love, money, success, health, peace, happiness).  We have seen how people (unintentionally of course) manifest extreme suffering and sabotage/punish/limit their own success in order to stay small and thus safe.  

Most people have dueling beliefs, and that is why the outside world does not always reflect your conscious positive mindframe.  As above, so below.  What you see on the surface may include a 100% healthy self-esteem, but this can be in direct conflict with the subconscious program of UNWORTHINESS. This self-punishing cycle of being NOT worthy of being seen/heard/loved/appreciated/respected/deserving then runs the scripts playing out in every area of life.  

We are all constantly fighting a battle of “being enough” for others, your parents, your work etc until we learn all our soul’s lessons and virtues and close those cycles out. Until you love and respect yourself unconditionally, history will continue to repeat itself and become more and more distressing until you do.  What you resist, persists. Limiting beliefs for scarcity and poverty consciousness created from a different time is very common genetically but no longer aligns with our times.  No worries, it is possible AND your birthright to live an unlimited abundant life without struggle and suffering and shift everything in your life in the direction you want.  

As your soul evolves and grows, so will the quality of your experiences and relationships.  You may not yet have what you want because the Universe is moving the pieces for you to have this.  In these cases, it is always bigger and better than you ever imagined.  

DIVINE TIMING may also be at play. Purpose-driven, growth-minded spiritual people often meet their life partners later in life for the highest magnetic compatibility.